I Only Say This Because I Love You

Description

Why does talk in families so often go round in circles, leaving us tied up in knots? Linguist Deborah Tannen reveals why talk among adult family members so often leads to arguments and hurt feelings. Using real conversations from the lives of real people, Tannen shows us how talk in a family is a high-wire act as we balance connection and power, struggling to get close without giving up our freedom. By helping us understand what conversations in the family really mean, she shows how to improve relationships with family members throughout our lives.

Reviews

'Presenting real conversations from people's lives, Tannen reveals what is actually going on in family talk.' IRISH EXAMINER 'This book is full of clarity and common sense which is what you need for the minefield of emotionally charged familial situations.' IRISH EXAMINER 'This powerful book will be of use to anyone who has ever struggled within a family relationship.' GOOD BOOK GUIDE

Author description

Deborah Tannen is the bestselling author of 'The Argument Culture', 'Talking from 9 to 5', 'That's Not What I Meant' and 'You Just Don't Understand'. She is a professor at Georgetown University in Washington D.C. 'I Only Say This Because I Love You' is her seventeenth book.